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Posted by froto3

on Mar 27, 2010

Hi,

I don't know where to begin I don't know what else to do or where else to go for help. I will start at the beginning to let you know what is going on. In Nov. 2007 my husband fell off a roof he shattered his heel, fractured 3 or 4 vertabrates  in his back, and broke 8 ribs. On top of all of this he is a diabetic. He isn't getting disability and the only income is mine. Then in December 2007 I got into a serious car accident and totaled our car. I was out of work untill June of 2008. When I got back to work they cut my hours from 37 hours to 20 hours.  In between this I lost my mother in May of 2008. I miss her alot.  It has been terrible. Thank God for friends. It has been a Constant Battle to try and keep my husbands foot. In December 2008 his foot got infected and he had to have surgery.He came home on a pump because he needed antibiotics every 12 hours he had this for the entire year of 2009. Going back and forth to the Drs. for the year of 2009.  In January of 2010 He passed out on the floor and went out. I started giving him C.P.R. I was on my 3rd round of compressions when the parametics came in and took over. They were breathing for him I was NEVER so scared in my life. Once he started breathing he was taken to the local hospital and was in I.C.U. for 3 days then they sent him to a larger hospital in Boston Ma. He was there for 3 weeks. He finally came home with another little cassett which gave him antibotics every 8 hours. He just got that taken out. And now we are going back and forth to the Drs yo talk about another surgery.  What happened is that he had 4 types of infection going through his body He litarally dies and they brought him back to life. They(drs.) Had to do surgery on his foot again. He came home Jan.28,2010. with a little cassett that gives him antibiotics every 8 hours. I guess that sums it up as to what has been going on in our lives. I am back to work. I have been working for the last few months with only 20 hours. and on and off with people on a on call basis. For the last coule of weeks I have had 30- 32 hours. But that is our only income. We have been driving around with a rejection sticker on the car that was left to me from my mother when she passed away. for 1 year because we can't afford to have it fixed they said it would cost anywhere between 800.00 and 1000.00 to have it fixed.It has something to do with a gasket that makes the o2 censor light go on. Or mortgage is due we have two of them one is 522.00, and the other is 269.00 ,Forget about our other bills water, sewerage, light, gas, phone, they haven't been paid because I had to pay our mortgage first. We received fuel asst. and we received emergency food stamps.Oh I forgot to mention that when my husband came home Jan. 28 the hot water heater broke and flood the cellar. We haven't had hot water since, because we can;t afford a new hot water heater. I guess what I am asking if there is anyone out there that can give any suggestions, advice, or help in any way please contact me. Prayers woud help to. Thank you for taking the time for reading my problems.       

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2. LETTIE68 posted on May 27, 2010

I SURELY KNOW ABOUT FALLING OFF THE ROOF.  IT HAS BEEN FOUR YRS. NOW.  THIS LAST SURGERY IN MARCH HAS LEFT ME ALMOST LIKE AN INVALID.  TERRIBLE.  YOU SHOULD QUALIFY FOR SOCIAL SECURITY DISABILITY.  I HAD TO RETIRE EARLY BECAUSE OF THE DISABILITY.

LETTIE68

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1. harlo1 posted on Apr 2, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of the hardships that you and your husband are going through. I have no other advice for you other than give all your troubles to God. Having faith in the Lord can be very comforting in times of trouble.

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